This morning, recently re-elected Connecticut state Rep. Beth Bye and her partner Tracey Wilson hovered over a computer in the West Hartford Town Hall waiting for an e-mail announcing that they could legally marry.

At 9:30 a.m. all of the state’s town clerks simultaneously received the notification that same-sex couples could marry in the state. Fellow state legislator Sen. Jonathan Harris officiated the ten-minute ceremony, joined by Bye’s sister, Wilson’s brother and three of their four children.

Bye says the marriage announcement will appear in the New York Times. Bye knows that she and Wilson were the first gay couple to marry in West Hartford, but she’s unsure of whether they were the first in the state.

“Saying the vows again was really beautiful and still moving,” she said. “It sort of it hit me harder than I thought it would.  It really was moving – to have this idea that we’re not separate.  We’re not a separate class, we’re the same like everyone else.”

Bye and Wilson already conducted a religious wedding three years ago, inviting more than 150 people. However, Bye says there are multiple pragmatic benefits about gaining a civil marriage.

She says, “I just posted on my Facebook that ‘Beth Bye is married.’ Four hours ago I couldn’t say that.  When I go to the doctor’s, I don’t have to check ‘other’ when asked about my marital status.”

Furthermore, now that Bye and Wilson are married, there is no question over whether Bye will be entitled to Wilson’s teaching pension (she will now be listed as a spouse instead of a “beneficiary,” which is important because, as Bye says, “the benefits are very different”).

Looking to how the Connecticut marriages will affect the marriage equality movement in other states, Bye says that as more states that pass legislation in support of same-sex relationships and the more people that live openly, the more people will realize that marriage equality poses no threat.

After Bye and Wilson’s wedding, she says, Wilson and the kids went back to school and Bye went back to work.

“We’re just living our lives. There’s really no hazard in this,” she said.