Largo, Fla., city commissioners have voted (5-2) to fire their longtime city manager, Steve Stanton, because he came out as transgender and told them he was starting the process of transitioning. At a council meeting this week, some councilmembers said they no longer could trust Stanton, adding he was “selfish,” for coming out.
So, there it is–the latest talking point from the haters. We heard it when former NBA player John Amaechi came out as gay, too. LeBron James studiously avoided saying anything positive about Amaechi, but made sure everyone knew he considered it a “trust issue.” It’s not that they hate LGBT folks, they insist, it’s that they’ve been lied to all these years and can’t trust us now.
Here are Largo city commissioners trying to justify their vote to fire Stanton:
With her voice cracking, Commissioner Harriet Crozier recalled the future she saw for the city when, in 1993, she voted to hire Stanton. Then, she turned to Stanton and said, “Mr. Stanton, you have let your selfishness get in the way.”
Commissioner Andy Guyette said that after hearing Stanton talk about how he selected friends to whom he revealed his plans, he became suspicious of many of the city manager’s actions in recent years.
“I find that I can no longer trust his judgment,” Guyette said.
Black agreed, saying she had come to doubt Stanton’s integrity.
Commissioner Gigi Arntzen said Stanton was her friend and neighbor. After 24 hours of reflection following Stanton’s announcement, though, she felt betrayed. She was angry, she said, that Stanton had confided in the mayor on January 1 about his plans, but told no other elected officials.
Utter BS. The truth is the bigots hate it when people stand up and tell the truth about their lives. From politicians to athletes to actors to Vice Presidential daughters, a real live human being unafraid to tell the truth does more damage to the cause of our enemies than any march, protest or petition. And they know it.